I’m home! God, it’s weird here…
I really, really can’t believe I’m home. It feels great, but strange as well – I didn’t really foresee past the end of India, and while I consciously accepted that I really was going to be home at some point, subconsciously it’s like I never expected to leave. I feel like I’ve come back from war!
The flights were fine – the guy beside me on our way to Istanbul managed to fall asleep and wake up about six times before we’d even left the ground. Every time he managed to make a huge show of waking up as if he’d completely forgotten where he was. It annoyed me to the extent that I forgot to feel sad about leaving.
I stayed awake for most of the flight. I think for the most part I really enjoy flying, as long as I’m not surrounded by an ensemble of gombeans along the way who insist on reclining their seats upon you before you’ve even taken off (I mean, really, did that guy expect to sleep as the plane hurtled forward from the ground into the air at 300 kilometres per hour? Most people have trouble breathing…), the chorus of screaming babies, the messy eaters who get the already-less-than-satisfactory airplane food everywhere, the snorers, the every-fifteen-minute-pee-ers and those absolute gobshites who steal the armrest.
But really, I do like flying.
Flying back to Dublin was something of a surreal experience. The first part of the flight seemed to drag out forever – I felt like I’d watched about three movies and done all the Sudoku they had before it even got to halfway, but then… I don’t know. Every few minutes that we got closer to home, I got more excited, I guess – but it didn’t feel like the usual jittery hyperactive happy excited; I’d like to think it was a little more profound than that. It felt like that sequence in Inception when Leonardo di Caprio is going through the airport with that rather stirring Zimmer soundtrack playing “Time” in the background, and there’s that look on his face when the nice passport control guy says, “Welcome home, Mr Cobb.” What I’m saying is, all of my life’s events are dramatic and movie-worthy and I have looks equal or greater than those of Leonardo di Caprio.
For the last part of the flight, I just watched the real-time flight information, and I watched from a whole bunch of differently-scaled maps as we flew over Europe, over the UK, seeing bits of the world that made me think, “Nah, we couldn’t be there, that’s too close to home to be where I am” and then finally we began our descent into Dublin, where the whole thing began.
I physically wasn’t able to keep from smiling when we were flying in. I was looking at the ground – Irish ground! – and I’d never been so excited to see that dull murky green landscape beneath me. When we hit the ground I nearly laughed! I’d say the guys beside me were wondering if I’d had too much to drink when the air hostess came around with the drinks trolley. I can only describe what I felt as pure elation. Even writing about this makes me wonder – why does anyone feel this way about returning to the place where they come from? Why does it matter so much? I’d say it’s just a place, but it’s really, really not.
We landed at half four in the afternoon and were guided into to our gate by Irish guys in high-vis jackets. It was so weird to see a place like this being managed by white guys! I felt like I’d never seen anything but brown skin and black hair in my life! Because a lot of people on the plane were also Irish, they managed to stay in their seats until the seatbelt sign was off (something the Indians never seemed to manage when we were travelling) and then we were stepping off the plane into Ireland. It was a little anticlimactic that we had a tunnel instead of walking down the steps, but I still had “Time” playing in my head as we walked through the airport, past passport control (in my head the guy behind the desk said “Welcome home, Mr Cobb.” It wasn’t the same but I still had a great time!) and into baggage.
Up until then, we had been a band of travelling Irish people, all with the same experiences – the same elephant pants in our bags and the same Indian silk scarves wrapped up for our families, the same wall decorations and photo frames the kids had given us on our last day of school, the same stained T-shirts from ten weeks in forty-five degree heat and a camaraderie forged through laughter, sickness, heartbreak, wonder, and most of all, sweat. I’ve never been linked with people in quite the same way before – in all seriousness, there’s something else to a friendship that comes through persevering against the same struggles in a difficult world, rather than a friendship made because you were scared on the first day of school and needed someone to find the toilets with you. We’ve lived together experiencing something out of the ordinary, something incredible, enlightening, devastating and wondrous – something that precious few else will understand.
We said our goodbyes at the carousel, the hum of luggage whirring slowly around replacing my infinitely more elegant imaginary soundtrack. It was a strange goodbye – we’ll all be seeing each other in a few weeks at the Suas return weekend here in Dublin, but I think what made it different was the feeling that this was more of a goodbye to India than a goodbye to each other. We were still wearing our travelling clothes, our faces were still gritty and bare – after this it would be homes like palaces, college, the friends we’d left behind rather than the friends we’d made, no staring, no camels ambling along the beach, no cows in the streets (although Dublin HAS surprised me in this regard before…), functioning showers, public toilets (and toilet paper!)… Past this point it was all going to be what we’d known of this world before it was turned upside down. So we said fer me lenge, shared a hug and a smile, and walked out of the end and into a new beginning.
My little sister met me first, then my parents. Everything else was instantly forgotten! I hadn’t spoken to them all summer, (except for that one disastrous Skyping incident) – seeing them all in person was overwhelming! They took my bags and listened to me spew out whatever jumped into my head about the past three months as we drove out of the airport and past Dublin’s neat little red brick terraced houses (for half an hour at least until the last few minutes of the hurling final was on!) and they brought me back to my home in Rathmines. They had done up the house, made dinner for me, put fresh sheets on my bed and they let me babble on about India through the meal until, afterwards, I slumped, too exhausted to move. All too soon they left for Waterford. I’ll see them again next weekend when we go to Gravelines in France to see my older sister row at World University Championships! Exciting times!
After that I was just about able to drag myself into the shower, scrub myself as clean as I was going to go, wash my hair and dress myself in clean pyjamas before collapsing into my bed (which is, I know now, the comfiest bed in the world). I was asleep ten seconds later, and I slept unwakeably until half an hour before my nine c’clock lecture the next day. If the world had ended over night, in the loudest possible way, I never would have known.
So… that’s it. The whole thing is over. I’ll write one more post, and that’ll be it from me. I am of course devastated the whole thing is over, but it’s been really amazing – and there is nothing in this world that beats the feeling of coming home!
See you around for one more story!